Wednesday, 24 May 2017

Khafa

Zindagi se kyu khafa tu ,
Kyu khafa hai uss​ khuda se,
Pass tere to hai sab-kuch ,
Fir bewafai kyu ish jaha se,
Mana na mil saka ,
Jo chahta tha ish zindagi se,
Pass hai manzil ab teri
Fir dur tu kyu khada hai,
Chal chale kuch dur hum,
Chhod kar ish jaha ko,
Na rahegi zindagi ,na rahega khuda,
Na rahegi bewafai, na rahegi khudai,
Ek labz gunjega bas, bas zudai bas zudai.

Krishna Tiwari

A son is son until he is getting married

This is the bitter truth of life which each and every parent should understand. If a boy is born in the family every one have some expectation with the boy , and the one who invested there sperm they have more expectation than any other ,"EVERY SON BECOME HUSBAND"  today or the other day , but the difference between son and husband no one understand neither the parent nor wife , ultimately the boy (such as husband or son) get pissed off between the expectation of wife and parents . No one wanted to cooperate , as parents do lots of thing whose debt one can never pay ,they use to take lots risk and face lots of problems just to make his/her son a successful man , so there expectation is not wrong but one should understand that when the boy's got married ,then he is not son only he has become a husband also so he have to take care of the responsibility which has been gifted by there parents . The new member can never understand the pain of the boy's parents because she is not parents , she had lived a life of freedom without any responsibility but when she comes to her husband house she wanted do the thing according to her wish without thinking about the husband family , here the main problem has been faced by the boy because he cant break her heart as she is the responsibility of his , and if he listens to his wife parents get angry and if he do things according to parents wish, wife will get hurt. Ultimately its the son/husband who get the punishment . Parents should understand that he is not that one which he used be because he have to play the part of husband also, and wife should understand that he is still a son who have to take care of his parents. Instead of making each others life miserable one should cooperate and understand the situation . As it has been said that at a time mother in law was also daughter in law, but this fight never ends .